New married couple does not have a qualified experience about sex. So, you both do not expect immediate reach orgasm during intercourse at the first time.
Sex experts from the United States, Ian Kerner provides a guide to the new married couple passed first night in more satisfactory, as reported by
Cosmopolitan.
Do not have too high expectationsSex generally feels favors and more comfortable when you already know every part of the body. So, you don't have to get depressed during sex with your husband at the first time.
BreathingYou may feel tense or in pain when you first
sex intercourse. Before starting sex intercourse, should set your breath so well that will give you more relaxed.
Do not forget to enjoy sex warming or foreplayIntimate relationships are not just about penetration, but how you and your partner can enjoy the action of kissing each other, touching and other sexual activity.
Do not expect immediately to get an orgasmOf course it's great if you could make your partner orgasm. But in fact, not all women can achieve sexual climax the first time.
Orgasm can be achieved with a feeling of comfort as well as specific knowledge of each partner's body, and it takes time
Make sure you are sufficiently aroused before having sexPrior to penetrate, you must make sure that the couple already wet vagina. If her vagina too dry, it can cause friction that causes the condom tearing or pain ( sometime with bleeding)
TalkLet your partner know what makes her comfortable or not during intercourse. Feedback from partners is needed, so do not be ashamed to ask for things that are intimate.
Do not assume he's an expertHe may get a lot of information about sex from reading books or friends. But when you both make your own experiment, the relationship created is different from the experience of others. Do not despair for always trying a new sex action and style every time to have sex with a partner
Do not pretendIf you do that, you will only be cheating yourself. Let your partner know that you're enjoying every process towards the peak of sexual relations, so that he will be motivated.